缘分天注定

这也是个“一见钟情”＋“偶遇——分离——再相遇”的故事。

男女主角偶遇的很浪漫，经过重重磨难再相遇时也很浪漫。

可是……可是……我搞不清楚的是，既然最初的偶遇后两人都有顾虑，不得不回归各自的生活，那女主角为什么要搞出些这么多的花头来考验这份“一见钟情”，来折腾这份“偶遇”呢？

日本的茶道里有一句话叫“一期一会”，说白了就是错过这个村儿就没这个店儿了。

难得的是“一见钟情”的好感，那么，在回归各自的现实时留下一个美好的回忆又有什么关系？

你又没有胆量与冲动来放弃现在的生活追随这份缘分，又要挖出本书来写上电话号码吊人家胃口，这不是折腾这是什么？

唉，最主要的是男主角还陪她玩，两个人在分开的那些年中对对方念念不忘相思成病——如果知道这个人是自己的真命天子，那为什么当初要放弃呢？

还是考验一段缘分很有必要吗？

不这样考验就无法坚定信心？

搞得来似乎很浪漫，其实却很神经，还对不起身边其他喜欢他们的人。

何苦呢？

何必呢？

如果真的相信缘分，就不要随便来考验。

如果不相信缘分，更加大可以相忘于江湖。

相遇了，然后在一起了，不仅需要缘分，更加需要坚定的信念与勇气。

既然没有，就不要随便来一句什么将未来交给命运来判断。

缘分是用来感激的，不是用来折腾的。

“ 1990年的冬天，在一个熙熙攘攘、忙忙碌碌的休息日里，人们都在为亲朋好友选购着圣诞节的礼物，乔纳森因为一双羊毛手套认识了莎拉，在人潮涌动的纽约市街头，两个陌生人神奇般地被对方所吸引。

尽管事实上，他们各自都有着情感的归宿，但仍然无可救药地在这个浪漫的夜晚坠入了爱河，还情不自禁地在曼哈顿的夜色里漫步了一整夜。

”这段剧情是不能被引荐给我朝现代80后，明显带着浓烈的“劈腿”色彩，在中国古典儒家思想的教育下 ，男人三妻四妾尚未被推崇，女人更应该遵守“三从四德”的职业道德操守。

这部电影明显带着教育人们怎么“劈腿”的邪恶动机，不过还好，我受到我朝党的先进性教育和“三个代表"重要思想的熏陶以及“八荣八耻”的思想净化，我抵制住了这样的”劈腿“教育片，去粗取精、去伪存真，才使我有了写这篇影评的的勇气和信心。

对不起，言归正传……”然而，夜晚总是要消失的，黎明来临时，两人不得不做出下一步的决定。

当乔纳森提议互相交换电话号码时，莎拉决定将两人的再次相遇寄托在缘分上，她拿出五元钞票，让乔纳森写上他的联系方式，然后径直走到杂货店用这张钞票买了口香糖，莎拉说，倘若有缘，纸币一定能再回到她的手里，到那时她会立刻与乔纳森联系。

同时，她还把自己的联系方式留在了一本旧书上，并将书卖给了一个旧书摊，随后两人分手离去，一切全看天意和缘分了…… “然而，短暂的邂逅之后却是无尽的思念与痛苦，女人和男人在各自的世界中继续生活着，但从来没有忘记过曾经和一见钟情的人独处的那一刻，她们总是在各自的世界里试图寻找着对方的影子。

这个让我有些感慨：我们也是在各自的生活轨道上每天按部就班的前行，但却不知道何为终点，只是途中的风景让我淡忘旅途的疲劳，每天都在留意更美的风景，对我而言，那更美的风景就是能让我漂泊的心安定下的港湾，可是在哪，我不知道。

我只是每天有意无意的寻找着，也许她早已出现，只是和我擦肩而过；也许她仍在远方，和我未曾谋面。

我却一直坚信这风景的存在。

”十年后，依然在纽约，乔纳森成为了一名制片人，而萨拉则在旧金山做精神治疗师。

两个人的命运自那次邂逅以后就再也没有了交点。

此时，正在忙着准备婚礼的乔纳森回忆起那短暂的罗曼史不免有些伤感，于是他决定做出最后一次的努力--寻找那本写着萨拉电话的书。

几经周折，令乔纳森兴奋的是，奇迹居然发生了……“这就是典型的好莱坞结尾了，喜剧就在这了，也没什么好说的了。

我想如果是高丽棒子，结尾一定是这样：某天，主人公们相遇了，相恋了。

但在不久的一天，某一位主人公因故（绝症、车祸之类的）去了另一个世界。

独活的那个独自徘徊于她们相识、相恋的地方，直到某一天，出现了一个和她/他长的一模一样的人，那真的就是她/他吗？

还有可能吗? 然后，阿哲的嗓音隐约响起：如果这是最后的结局，为何我还忘不了你……难道，我就这样过我的一生，我的吻，注定吻不到最爱的人，为你等，从一开始盼到现在也同样落得不可能……电影剧终

庄君纳顿.卓加……有线体育台优秀监制既失红颜，复破婚盟肝肠寸断，遂于昨宵撒手尘寰享年三十有五庄君文质彬彬，公而忘私平素言行，绝无痴态孰料，阳寿将尽之际……流露鲜为人知之浪漫刹那惊艳，化作萦回梦魂遍觅芳踪，历尽一波三折本性情怀，浮现无遗呜呼，踏破铁鞋……方觉一番心事悉付东流语云：匹夫可以夺其爱……不可夺其志庄君依然坚信……人生际遇绝非偶然冥冥中，上苍早已安排周详丝毫不爽其友文坛巨擘……时报主笔甸恩谓……庄君晚年脱胎换骨有所顿悟一言以蔽之……欲臻天人合一……须坚信一字此字古已有之于今亦然，唯“缘”而已Jonathan Trager, Prominent television producer for ESPN, died last night from complications of losing his soul mate and his finance.He was 35 years old and soft-spoken and obsessive. Trager never looked the part of a hopeless romantic, but in the final days of his life, he revealed an unknown side of his psyche. This hidden quasi-Junqian person a surfaced during the Agatha Christie-like pursuit for his long-reputed soul mate, a woman whom he only spent a few precious hours with.Sadly, The protracted search ended late Saturday night in complete and utter failure.Yet even in certain defeat, the courageous Trager secretly clung to the belief that life is not merely a series of meaningless accidents or coincidences uh-uh, but rather it’s a tapestry of events that culminate in an exquisite, sublime plan.Asked about the loss of his dear friend, Dean Kansky, the Pulitzer Prize-winning author and executive editor of the New York Times described Jonathan as a changed man in the last days of his life, “things were clearer for him” Kansky noted.Ultimately, Jomathan concluded that if we are to live life in harmony with the universe, we must all possess a powerful faith in what the ancients used to call “fatum”, what we currently refer to as destiny.

复制黏贴当时听力课老师让我们看后我写的影评。

Feelings After Watching Serendipity Last Saturday, we watched a seemingly romantic movie called Serendipity. Sara and John met at a shop because they wanted to buy the same black gloves . They spent a really happy night. When being separated from each other, Sara wrote her name and telephone number on a paper, but it blew away. John thought it a accident, while Sara regarded it as destiny. So Sara spent the money where John wrote his name and telephone number and sold the book where wrote hers. She kept in deep belief that if they were meant to meet, they would meet. After seven years, they were respectively going to get married but they still couldn't forget each other. If destiny permitting, they hoped to find each other. Obstacles as they went through, they met on a snowy night just as seven years ago.It looks like a moving love story that they live happily together ever after. Apparently, when Sara got his money and John found her book, it may be what the director wants to express——they are bound to see each other, which he calls "Serendipity". However, try as I can, I still don't understand the destiny. It was destiny when they first met, wasn't? I can feel that they fell in love with each other at first sight, but why did Sara have to hold on what she called fate. How stupid! Of course, as a movie, if they had exchanged their names and phone numbers as soon as they met, there wasn't such a story anymore.Therefore, in our daily life, if we meet our Mr.Right, do not hesitate to ask for "names and phone numbers". Because I believe our destiny is in our own hands.

Jonathan Trager,prominent television producer for ESPN,died last night from complications of losing his soul mate and his fiance.He was 35 years old and soft-spoken and obsessive.Trager never looked the part of a hopless romantic.But in the final days of his life,he revealed an unknown side of his psyche.This hidden quasi-Jungian persona...surfaced during the Agatha Christie-like pursuit for his long-reputed soul mate,a woman whom he only spent a few precious hours with.Sadly,the protracted search ended late Saturday night...in complete and utter failure.Yet even in certain defeat,the courageous Trager secretly clung to the belief...that life is not merely a series of meaningless accidents or coincidences.Uh-uh.But rather it's a tapestry of events...that culminate in an exquisite,sublime plan.Asked about the loss of his dear friend, Dean Kansky,the Pulitzer Prize-winning author and executive editor of the New York Times,described Jonathan as a changed man in the last days of his life."Things were clear for him,"Kansky noted.Ultimately, Jonathan concluded that if we are to live life in harmony with the universe,we must all possess a powerful faith in what the ancients used to call"fatum,"-what we currently refer to as destiny.

电影结尾处有一段翻译的很有意思悼词 庄纳顿. 卓加，有线体育台优秀监制，既失红颜，复破婚姻，肝肠寸断，遂于昨宵 撒手尘寰，享年三十有五。

庄君文质彬彬， 公而忘私， 平素言行， 绝无痴 态 。

熟料阳寿将尽之际，流露鲜为人知的浪漫。

刹那惊艳，化作萦回梦魂，遍觅 芳踪，历尽一波三折，本性情怀，浮现无疑。

呜呼，踏破铁鞋，方觉一番心事悉 付东流。

语云：匹夫可以夺其爱，不可夺其志。

庄君依然坚信：人生际遇绝非偶 然，冥冥中，上苍早已安排周详，丝毫不爽。

其友文坛巨掣、时报主笔甸恩谓： 庄君晚年脱胎换骨，有所顿悟。

一言以蔽之，欲臻天人合一，须坚信一字，此字 古已有之，于今亦然，唯“缘”而已。

Serendipity.2004年被英国评为最难翻译的单词之一，如今已经被扩展到了其他的语种之中。

是的，与其解释半天，不如创造一个只能意会，不可言传的单词。

第一次看这部电影的时候还很懵懂，记得当时因为某些原因没有看到结局，又不知道电影的名字，就这么的等啊等,猜啊猜。

在心中有了无数的结局，无数的期盼，无数的美好，慢慢长大。

很多年之后，无意中逛音像店的时候突然发现了摆在角落里的DVD，不惜代价的买了回来，看了两遍，看到了结局，也哭了出来。

也许是因为那份早在8年前就在我心中烙下的感动吧从来没有想到这个电影会这么的打动我的心。

以至于每每在给别人推荐电影的时候，这部浪漫喜剧会显得那么的odd. 看过的人，有的说它很假，有的说结局太一般。

而我，无言以对。

不是因为没有理由去争论，而是因为 我太爱它了，爱到可以忽视任何人对它的评价，对它的质疑；就好象爱上一个人太久，太深，你甚至可以容忍他的放肆和花心记得有一次上Management Science， 这个听上去就会闷死人的课。

在老师发的notes上突然出现了一首精美的小诗，叫什么不记得了，只知道它讲了：'The Three Princes of Serendip‘ 在旅途中不断发现惊喜的故事。

最后一句好象是： In their finding of serendipity..当时我的心就一颤，身边的斯里兰卡的男生自豪地说，这里的serendip指的就是 Sir Lanka. 这是斯里兰卡的一个传说。

从此我对这门课，甚至那个国家，有了不一样的崇敬。

可是，随着自己年龄的增长，远距离恋爱的压力，也越来越觉得，电影终究是电影。

如果以它为标准，恐怕只会让自己受伤。

希望还是有的，只是不知道它在哪里。

就这样吧。

这也是我为什么喜欢serendipity这个单词的原因了， 你永远不能很好的解释她：'意外发现美好事物的运气'？

远不止这么简单。

只要相信她的存在，她就在心里的某个角落等着你..用心体会，才能发觉。

提到这部电影，就不能说那张完美的原声大碟. 是我的最爱之一。

（top is Finding Neverland,但一个是古典，一个是流行。

）歌曲的选择恰到好处。

以至于几年之后每每听到它，心里还是会涌出一片感动，这种感觉，不能意会....也无法意会。

但时光不再。

不会再像以前那样：痴痴的趴在桌子上，或是站在满是雾气的窗户前，一遍一遍的，一笔一画的写下每个字母.然后心里默念着：Serendipity..."Life is not merely a series of meaningless accidents or coincidences, uh uh, but rather it is a tapestry of acts that culminate in an exquisIte, sublime plan."

故事开始于7年前，当初的分开是阴差阳错，最后的相遇是机缘巧合，女主的侧颜和回眸真美，约翰库萨克是那种不帅却很难让人不喜欢的形象，书和美金的设定让人一直在期待，期待美好的降临。

很俗却很难让人不感同身受，人生很多阶段都会与各种各样的人擦肩而过，也许错过了就是一辈子，但是久别重逢的那种喜悦无法用言语描述，无论是爱情还是友情。

You can believe Destiny.

Dean: Jonathan Trager, prominent television producer for ESPN, died last night from complications of losing his soul mate and his fiance. He was thirty-five years old. Soft-spoken and obsessive, Trager never looked the part of a hopeless romantic. But in the final days of his life, he revealed an unknown side of his psyche. This hidden quasi-Jungian persona surfaced during the Agatha Christie-like pursuit for his long, reputed soul mate; a woman whom he only spent a few precious hours with. Sadly, the protracted search ended late Saturday night in complete and utter failure. Yet even in certain defeat, the courageous Trager secretly clung to the belief that life is not merely a series of meaningless accidents or coincidences. Uh-uh. But rather, it is a tapestry of events that culminate into an exquisite, sublime plan. Ask about the loss of his dear friend, Dean Kansky, the Pulitzer Prize-winning author and executive editor of New York Times, described Jonathan as a changed man in the last days of his life. Things were clearer for him, Kansky noted. Ultimately, Jonathan concluded that if we are to live life in harmony with the universe we must all possess a powerful faith, of what the ancients used to call fatum; what we currently refer to as destiny. 　　乔纳森卓加，有线体育台优秀监制，既失红颜，复破婚盟，肝肠寸断，遂于昨宵撒手尘寰，享年三十有五。

庄君文质彬彬，公而忘私，平素言行，绝无痴态，孰料，阳寿将尽之际，流露鲜为人知的浪漫，刹那惊绝，化作萦回梦魂，遍觅芳踪，历尽一波三折，本性情怀，浮现无遗，呜呼，踏破铁鞋，方觉一番心事悉付东流。

语云：匹夫可以夺其爱，不可夺其志，壮君依然坚信，人生际遇绝非偶然，冥冥中，上苍早已安排周详，丝毫不爽。

其友文坛巨擎，时报主笔甸恩谓。

庄君晚年脱胎换骨，有所顿悟，一言以蔽之，欲臻天人合一，须坚信一字，此字古已有之，于今亦然，唯“缘”而已。

翻译太好了！

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和很多其他Romantic Comedy一樣，主角都是在馬上要結婚的時候想到曾經的戀人，所謂婚前cold feet，然後發現現在的愛人不是真愛；都是通過主角理想主義，相信destiny and fate，配角現實主義，相信life is a mess and choas，然後通過奇蹟出現，完美結局，讓人相信life is a some elaborate stage play with directions for the actors.相信the whole universe existed just to bring us together.相信life is not merely a series of meaningless accidents or coincidences. But rather it's a tapestry of events that culminate in an exquisite, sublime plan.(怎麼也沒看出來這個男主角和《Being John Malkovich》是同一個人；也不覺得這已經是2001年的老片)喜歡他們坐電梯那段；喜歡這句Love is not giving up, it's growing up.