实习医生格蕾第三季

Cristina, I do promise, to hold you and cherish you. 　　And I promise, to be there in sickness and in health. 　　I could say, till death do us apart, but I won’t. 　　Those vows are for optimistic couples, the vows full of hope, 　　but I do not stand here on my wedding day optimistic or full of hope. 　　I am not optimistic, I am not hopeful, I am sure, I’m steady 　　And I know, I’m a heart man, 　　take them apart, put them back together,I hold them in my hands, 　　I am a heart man, so this, I am sure, 　　you are my partner, my lover, my very best friend. 　　My heart, my heart beats for you. 　　And on this day, the day of our wedding, 　　I promise you this, 　　I promise you to lay my heart in the pond of your hands,I promise you, me.

◆实习医生格蕾”第三季第四集The fantasy is simple Pleasure is good But the reality is different The reality is that pain is there to tell us something But there are still so much pleasure we can take without getting a stomachache And maybe that’s ok Maybe some fantasy just lie in the dreams幻想是简单的，快乐是美好的，双倍快乐更好，痛苦是糟糕的，没有痛苦更好，但事实却大不相同，事实是痛苦在那告诉我们些道理的，除了得胃痛我们还能得到很多快乐，也许那没什么，但幻想只该留在我们梦里.

what is your problem？？？？

一边说着再也不搞了，结果两个人又开始“做朋友”眉目传情地又开始了？

两个人都喜欢把自己作为受害者身份难怪是一对，Derek被背叛装得跟有多爱addison 一样作不作啊？

grey和George make love哭的像被强j。

最狗血的是第十七集，还整了个英雄救美死而复生，真就主角光环九条命呗？

这一季连b&c的感情线也结束了，彻底弃剧

我想编辑一定是失忆了无名女明明之前因为高血压而剖腹早产了，22集又被搀扶着出现说什么多走动对小孩好，而且还挺着大肚子。

太搞笑啦

我就不懂了大家都说c和burke如何如何般配你们没觉得她在b手术的时候逃避了么？

没觉得她陪伴受伤的b很不耐烦么？

没觉得她只有在b振作起来才开始笑脸相迎么？

没觉得她很享受掌控b帮助b甚至越权去做她本该第五年才做的手术么？

没觉得她的挣扎只是担心b秘密暴露后影响自己的前程么？

没觉得她和m讨论关于他们的秘密的时候，一直在试图把责任推给b么？

没觉得她和b争吵的时候，重点也在于谁的责任么？

没觉得明明是她推着b隐瞒手伤，实际自己得到更多手术机会么？

没觉得她在被b命令离开手术的时候，选择直接跟院长告发，很虚伪么？

那你早干嘛去了？

你前面表现的我多爱这个男人我要为他保守我的秘密我的朋友都不算什么，但是这个男人一表示我不需要你也能完成我的手术，你就转身去告诉院长了？

而且居然没有一个人那么觉得。。。。？

如果你爱事业那么多，就不要分心爱人了。

American medical TV series share too much in common. Like Emergency Room, it is always about sex and ex,broken heart and family, cheat and betray, gay and straight, unusual diseases which are once in a million, romantic dramas which are tri-angle or more. Surgeon, one of the most money-making careers in America, is just depicted to be perfect or should I say too perfect to be real. All the hard working and hard playing clealy make these doctors' life much more entertaining and worshiping. Can't remember why I watched Grey's Anatomy at first place. But the reason why I keep watching it is for sure, doctor Burke and my love of Grey's Anatomy B&C. Since it will be no more Burke in Seattle Grace after episode III, I believe there will be no more reason keeping me here. Truely it is time say goodbye.Doctor Burke, the best heart and chest surgeon for sure. The name it self represents the uncomparable wisdom, technique, delicacy and experience. The moment I saw him, I knew it is him. His confidence, calmness, devotion and dedication, he is the one who embraces all the best qualities you wish you could have. He never makes mistakes, because he is mistake-proof. He won't need pursue perfect, because he is perfect. Then he fell for some intern, Christina. Still can't remember who takes the first lead. But their relationship has been keeping steady and strong from the starting. No third-man interverence, no insatiable covetousness, no eating in the bowl while looking at the pot, no playing hard to get. It is not ambiguous, but simple. It is not dramatic, but sincere. It is not twisted but honest. It is not cheerful color, but crystal clear. Love me it you dare... Love me if you are the one... Burke loves Christina. He invites her to move in together. He needs her to be his invisible right hand on the operation when he couldn't handle it. He asks her to make the sacred vows before God. He wants her to be there for richer for poorer through sickness and health. He believes in true love and true heart. But this time, he hesitated. He never had any second thoughts about anything, that's the problem. He's not sure or steady any more. He knows about Christina. He's afraid that he knows her too well. He cares about her. He's afraid that he cares her too much. He wants her to be happy and what's best for her. He wants her to have what's she wants but not what's he wanted her to have. He wants her to be the Christina, not the woman he was trying to make her to be, not the woman he hoped she would become, just Christina. He doesn't want any change for her, any compromise from her. That's Burke, the doctor Burke who loves Christina and would be letting her go.As for C, she is just some intern, but still the best. She's got some potential to be one of the best attendings or surgeons. She's smart and competitive. But still she could also be stupid and dumb. She let go of something so beaufiful and precious. She let Burke leave and what's more she let Burke let her go. They never get married because it is not what she wants at that time, marriage or commitment. Career and family, why couldn't they have them all? When episode III ends, we see Christina standing in the empty apartment, in white wedding dress, desperately getting rid of the family tradition jewlery, crying for free. It's not home when it's Burke-less. It's not the Christina we love when it's Burke-less. She's just she, no more tags, just she.When Burke practised his wedding vows on the operation with other doctors and nurses witnessing, we nearly believed it, even himself believed it is time...for once and for real... I could promise to hold you and to cherish you 　　I could promise to be there in sickness and in health 　　I could say till death do us part 　　but I won't 　　those vows are for optimistic couples 　　the ones full of hope 　　and I do not stand here on my wedding day, 　　optimistic or full of hope 　　I am not optimistic 　　I am not hopeful 　　but I am sure 　　I am steady 　　and I know 　　I am a heart man 　　I take them apart 　　put them back together 　　I hold them in my hands 　　I am a heart man 　　so this 　　I am sure 　　you are my partner 　　my lover 　　my very best friend 　　my heart, 　　my heart beats for you 　　and on this day 　　the day of our wedding 　　I promise you this, 　　I promise you 　　to lay my heart in the palm of your hands 　　I promise you 　　-meNothing more to lose. Nothing more to remind. Nothing more to hold on to. And nothing more to have faith in. Burke could be chief if not for that accident. Burke could be happily married if not for that Chrstina. What remains in Seattle Grace is just some glorious records of his accomplishments. What remains in Christina's memory is just some fairy without a happy wedding ending. While what remains in my heart is always him, Burke, one and only. If I had the chance, I'd like to say those words exactly what Addison said: Don't marry her, doctor Burke, marry me instead.Time to leave Seattle Grace...Time to leave Grey's Anatomy...At least, I have said goodbye...　　

S3 E15 https://www.douban.com/note/863981550/?_i=0497548sgOIij2S3 E11－12 https://www.douban.com/note/863940766/?_i=0388787sgOIij2这次重看，发现很多来客串的演员都非常有趣，比如第2第3季女主约会过的这个兽医。

五小强根据McDreamy、McSteamy的命名规则，给兽医Finn取名为McVet：

第三季第三集女主梦里的McVet。

演员名为Chris O'Donnell，他最有名的作品是《闻香识女人》里的小查理：

第二季结尾时，Izzie的未婚夫丹尼死去。

第三季Izzie疯狂做蛋糕。

上面这位奥唐纳的第一部电影叫《男人不走》：

这部电影里杰西卡-兰芝演他的妈妈，片中也因为悲伤疯狂做蛋糕来着。

Derek去酒店找Addison时，马克从浴室出来，浑身冒热气，大概是玩了个McSteamy的梗。

丹尼的父亲来找Izzie了，送来870万。

这位父亲的演员（Fred Ward）与Derek的演员之前在电影《阿拉巴马甜蜜的家》中有过合作：

这季Burke因为手臂受伤，很多手术都是在杨的帮助下完成。

后来另一部医疗剧也学过，《驻院医生》里因为患病导致手震颤的上司逼迫年轻有才华但是拿着签证在美国工作的下级医生替自己做手术。

这一季一如既往地很吸引人（对于自己能边吃三餐边看这种手术剧，也是醉了）。

前几集都有点受不了Cristina对于Burker手伤的处理，太……冷漠了（所以最后俩人没结婚也是有道理的，说的苛刻点，cri对burker爱的不够）。

以及，不喜欢izzie的大嘴巴（干嘛要跟George的爸妈八卦George的感情！

没有边界感！

）。

而且izzie对kelly的态度也很不合适，就这么固执的觉得自己是George最好的朋友，然后觉得George和kelly不合适，还要说出来说一次又说一次？？

喜欢addison的大度和潇洒。

第17集特别感动，友情和爱情一起涌现。

渡轮出事，mer在救护过程中溺水。

这集里，Cristina一反常态，有点疯癫（完全不能calm down），真实流露了她对mer的感情。

这两个人在五个人的小团体中确实是不一样的，是最好的朋友。

Cristina对burker说，mer is my person，其实mer也是这样看待cri的，记得那时候其他实习生知道cri替burker隐瞒手伤的事都不理cri了，只有mer一直stand by cri并且怒斥其他实习生。

还有一次mer和derek躺在床上的时候，derek说，cri告诉你的事，你都不能告诉我么。

mer说，不能，因为，当我最受伤的时候，你不在，是她在。

同样是17集，derek对mer的感情也是满满溢出。

就连addison在旁观者的角度，都说，他从未对我有这种感情。

这也是我一直看待爱情和婚姻的观点，很多人（大部分人）都能拥有婚姻，但很少人拥有那种爱到满心欢喜、充满依恋感的爱情。

很多人评论这个剧的时候都集中在性上，坦率的说，刚开始我也很讨厌这一点，但是后来就被其他更多的情节吸引住了，这个片子不只是性，他有更多人性的思考最喜欢bailey,yang,　Addsion其实每个人我都很喜欢，因为他们全都不一样，没有脸谱的电视剧才是上品个性鲜明，有缺点，但是真实让人喜欢和理解诚实，敬业，对所有和自己交往过的人没有过后的冷漠，关心和真诚坦诚面对伤疤坦然接受残酷不做作我喜欢每个人，不管他有多少缺点，我喜欢有特点的任何人

当 burke在手术室里念他的结婚誓词时，真的深深的被感动了。

以下贴出他的誓词 ：2009-03-07 12:31:10 laoshan (xihu xizi) Christina, I do promise, to hold you and cherish you. 　　（我本可发誓说，会呵护你，会珍惜你。

） 　　And I promise, to be there in sickness and in health. 　　（我本可发誓说，无论疾病还是健康，不离不弃。

） 　　I could say, till death do us apart, but I won’t. 　　（我本可以说，只有死亡才能使我们分离，但我不想说。

） 　　Those vows are for optimistic couples, the vows full of hope, but I do not stand here on my wedding day optimistic or full of hope. 　　（那些誓言，是给那种乐观的，充满希望的人们的，而今天站在这婚礼上的我，并非如此。

） 　　I am not optimistic, I am not hopeful, I am sure, I’m steady. 　　（我并不乐观，也并非满怀希望，但我确定，我很坚定。

） 　　And I know, I’m a heart man, take them apart, put them back together, I hold them in my hands, I am a heart man, so this, I am sure, you are my partner, my lover, my very best friend. 　　（我知道，我掌控别人的心，我把别人的心拿开，又把它们放回。

别人的心总在我的手上。

我掌控着别人的心，所以，我确定，你是我的搭档，我的爱人，我的挚友。

） 　　My heart, my heart beat for you. And on this day, the day of our wedding, I promise you this, I promise you to lay my heart in the pond of your hands, I promise you, me. 　　（我的心，我的心只为你跳动。

而今天，在我们的婚礼上，我向你承诺，我，要把心交予你手，我把我自己，放于你手中。

） 一直从第一季追到第三季，看到burke离开了，并且再也不会回到剧中，我真的觉得再看没有意义了。

burke专注，深情，宽容，执着，我觉得能嫁给这样的人是多么的幸福啊！！

可是，为什么，yang,你为什么不主动一点，主动一点点，我多么希望你们在一起！

深深喜欢burke 回来吧！

Dr burke！